List of conditions is getting longer

 Manifesting is tricky. You usually get what you ask for but it is often not what you thought it would be. To manifest a good experience, it helps to more carefully define what you want.

I want to have some fun and meaningful experiences being tied up by other people. To keep it fun and uplifting requires a number of conditions, some physical and some relational. As I get older, the list of ideal physical conditions gets longer and more detailed. Relational conditions get better defined, but really apply at any age.

All these conditions means that the captor has a lot of health and safety responsibility, but that is how we keep it fun and uplifting.

Relational:

I should know that my captor will not do any real harm and has my best interests at heart.
Captor should not be an employee or any other relationship that involves one of us having financial or social power over the other.
Captor wants to do this, is playfully creative and somewhat unpredictable.
All parties understand safety and how and when to back off or quit.

Physical:

The ideal timing is when I am healthy and physically feeling well.
Time frame: Measured in hours, not minutes or days.
Temperature:  75 degrees or higher works best for long term exposure.
Food: Empty stomach is best
Bladder: Mostly empty. Well hydrated body but not saturated.
Colon: Not totally full or freshly empty. (freshly empty can pre-dispose me to cramps)

Binding:
 For short time frames measured in minutes, any position or binding method will work. For longer term, muscles, tendons joints, circulation and temperature all need to be considered.

Circulation:   Cuffs, chains and straps do a great job without having to be tight. Ropes and scarves eventually reduce circulation. For long periods, horizontal works best. Any body part that is highly above or below the heart tends to get poor circulation.

Captor can do all the binding, or I can partake in the binding to help assure comfort and safety.